The Art of Finding and Keeping Love

-- first published on BellaNaija on 10-02-2015-- It’s that period again when the atmosphere around us is serenaded with just one message – love. As the whole world waited earnestly for the announcement that was to be made by the INEC Chairman regarding the possible postponement of the elections, many Nigerians had become divided into... Continue Reading →


                                    -- first published on Bella-Naija on 24-06-2015 The week of the National Assembly elections was perhaps one of the most dramatic in the history of Nigeria’s democracy. Just when we thought the APC had gotten their act... Continue Reading →

The Thing About Unreturned Love

-- originally published on Bella Naija on 10-03-2015 --- “Maybe I was destined to forever fall in love with people I couldn’t have, Maybe there’s a whole assortment of impossible people waiting for me to find them. Waiting to make me feel the same impossibility over and over again.” – Carol Rifka Brunk, Tell the Wolves... Continue Reading →

Watch this space …

As scary as the reality sounds, it's been aeons since I last published on this platform. A mix of a block, busyness and even lack of excuses has brought me to this point. I'm considering repenting of me blogging sins and turn a new leaf. I'll start with uploading some of my posts that have... Continue Reading →

Opposites Attract to Attack

Opposites attract is an age-long mantra we've grown up to learn about. Perhaps culled from the Laws of Magnetism, where it is believed that it's the opposing ends(poles) of a magnet that makes them draw near, while the similar ends (poles) pull away at the closest minimum. Based on this belief, many supposed relationship experts... Continue Reading →

… Of Love and Respect

What do men really want? What do women really want? For everyone who is in, has ever been, or hopes to be in a relationship, these two questions have remained timeless. Many men would readily argue that understanding a woman, is an arduous task, which can never be fully grasped even in the volume of... Continue Reading →

Random Bus Musings

A few days back while journeying home in a public bus, after a tiring work day, I thought to pass time typing-out a few lines of thoughts on my mobile phone. Below is what I wrote. I’ve termed it Random Bus Musings. I pray it blesses a soul…RANDOM BUS MUSINGSSomedays we go through life,Looking forward... Continue Reading →

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